{"id":443,"date":"2016-05-02T06:00:33","date_gmt":"2016-05-02T06:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/?p=443"},"modified":"2017-03-10T19:59:45","modified_gmt":"2017-03-10T19:59:45","slug":"should-you-hug-your-dog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/should-you-hug-your-dog\/","title":{"rendered":"Should You Hug Your Dog?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Does Your Dog Really Want To Be Hugged?<\/h1>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/happy-pets-blog-dog-being-hugged-by-woman.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-444\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/happy-pets-blog-dog-being-hugged-by-woman.jpg?resize=300%2C200&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"happy pets blog dog being hugged by woman\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/happy-pets-blog-dog-being-hugged-by-woman.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/happy-pets-blog-dog-being-hugged-by-woman.jpg?w=450&amp;ssl=1 450w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There seems to be a lot of controversy now regarding dogs and hugging.\u00a0 There are \u2018experts\u2019 who claim that dogs feel threatened and that what you interpret as enjoyment from them might be the dog simply enduring the moment, or possibly barely contained dislike for what is happening.\u00a0 The theory is that because dogs are animals that, in times of stress or threat, have a first line defense of their ability to run away, they may feel surrounded and immobilized when hugged, which may cause their stress and anxiety levels to increase.<\/p>\n<p>I strongly believe that the answer to the question: does my <em>dog like to be hugged<\/em> depends on her personality and background, and on your relationship with each other. \u00a0You might already know exactly how your dog feels about hugging.\u00a0 If she leans into you and snuggles up, it\u2019s safe to say that she likes her hugs from you and does not feel threatened or immobilized in any way.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to be sure how your dog feels about being hugged by you, but it\u2019s also important to know how she feels when strangers go in for a hug.\u00a0 If a dog barely tolerates hugs, then the wrong hug at the wrong time from the wrong person may trigger anxiety or fear in your dog and could result in your dog snapping at the hugger.<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully, dogs make their thoughts abundantly clear through their body language, and as long as you know what to look for, you will know what your dog thinks of a loving squeeze. Please see my article on <a href=\"https:\/\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/understanding-your-dogs-body-language\/\" target=\"_blank\">Understanding Your Dog\u2019s Body Language<\/a>, dated March 28 2016.<\/p>\n<p>A very good way of determining whether your dog likes to be hugged is to have someone take a photo of the two of you hugging. While we\u2019re hugging our pets, we don\u2019t see their faces, so the photo will tell the true tale.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>Signs of Distress<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Bared teeth is an obvious sign of anxiety<\/p>\n<p>If your dog turns her head away from you and your hug (averted gaze), she is turning away from whatever is worrisome or distressing<\/p>\n<p>When a dog\u2019s mouth is open and relaxed, the dog is relaxed. If your dog closes her mouth when you hug her, she may be experiencing a change in her feelings<\/p>\n<p>Licking, yawning, or raising a paw can be signs of distress<\/p>\n<p>Lowering her ears or slicking them back against her head<\/p>\n<p>If your dog \u201cshakes it off\u201d (as in after a bath) after a hug, she may be showing displeasure<\/p>\n<p>(There is no sound in the video below)<\/p>\n<div class=\"embed-container\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"830\" height=\"623\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/MLcjCSa2gZY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If your dog happens to be of the type that isn\u2019t into hugs, there are alternatives, like scratching or belly rubs. But, for the dog-lovers who can\u2019t live without their puppy cuddles, you can always try <em>counter-conditioning<\/em> until you are certain that your dog is on the same page. <em>Counter-conditioning<\/em> is to hug your dog briefly and then give her a treat.\u00a0 Repeat as needed.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>Remember That Every Dog Is An Individual<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Each dog is different, with different personalities and feelings, so it\u2019s important to remember that your dog might prefer an ear scratch instead of a hug, or may only enjoy hugs from you and no one else.\u00a0 Few dogs are comfortable with hugs from children who clasp the dog around the neck and hang on.\u00a0 This may be very threatening to a dog, so be aware of this when your dog is interacting with your family. It is recommended to take great care in teaching children to be gentle and move slowly around pets.\u00a0 To keep everyone safe, be sure to start off with controlled, supervised interactions between dogs and young children. Ensure that your dog is\u00a0given her\u00a0space when needed and always monitor the dog\u2019s body language during interactions to make sure that both dog and children are comfortable and are having fun.<\/p>\n<p>To continue the amazing relationship we have with our pets we must take on the responsibility of seeing the world from their perspective. This definitely includes the simple act of hugging. If you truly want to be your dog\u2019s best friend, find out what they do and do not like and adjust your actions to what makes them comfortable.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/happy-pets-blog-dog-being-hugged-by-little-boy2.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-445\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/happy-pets-blog-dog-being-hugged-by-little-boy2.jpg?resize=239%2C350&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"happy pets blog dog being hugged by little boy2\" width=\"239\" height=\"350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/happy-pets-blog-dog-being-hugged-by-little-boy2.jpg?resize=205%2C300&amp;ssl=1 205w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/happypetsinfo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/happy-pets-blog-dog-being-hugged-by-little-boy2.jpg?w=479&amp;ssl=1 479w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 239px) 100vw, 239px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Does Your Dog Really Want To Be Hugged? 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